I wish I could get by the scruff of the neck that sophomoric old philosopher who once said nothing survives being thought of. For I’ve been learning, this last two or three days, just how wide of the mark he shot. And it’s all arisen out of Dinky-Dunk’s bland intimation that I am “a withered beauty.” Those words have held like a fish-hook in the gills of my memory. If they’d come from somebody else they mightn’t have meant so much. But from one’s own husband—Wow!—they go in like a harpoon. And they have given me a great deal to think about. There are times, I find, when I can accept that intimation of slipping into the sere and yellow leaf without revolt. Then the next moment it fills me with a sort of desperation. I refuse to go up on the shelf. I see red and storm against age. I refuse to bow to the inevitable. My spirit recoils at the thought of decay. For when you’re fading you’re surely decaying, and when you’re decaying 55 you’re approaching the end. So stop, Father Time, stop, or I’ll get out of the car!

But we can’t get out of the car. That’s the tragic part of it. We have to go on, whether we like it or not. We have to buck up, and grin and bear it, and make the best of a bad bargain. And Heaven knows I’ve never wanted to be one of the Glooms! I’ve no hankering to sit with the Sob Sisters and pump brine over the past. I’m light-hearted enough if they’ll only give me a chance. I’ve always believed in getting what we could out of life and looking on the sunny side of things. And the disturbing part of it is, I don’t feel withered—not by a jugful! There are mornings when I can go about my homely old duties singing like a prairie Tetrazzini. There are days when I could do a hand-spring, if for nothing more than to shock my solemn old Dinky-Dunk out of his dourness. There are times when we go skimming along the trail with the crystal-cool evening air in our faces and the sun dipping down toward the rim of the world when I want to thank Somebody I can’t see for Something-or-other I can’t define. Dum vivimus vivamus.

But it seems hard to realize that I’m a sedate and elderly lady already on the shady side of thirty. A 56 woman over thirty years old—and I can remember the days of my intolerant youth when I regarded the woman of thirty as an antiquated creature who should be piously preparing herself for the next world. And it doesn’t take thirty long to slip into forty. And then forty merges into fifty—and there you are, a nice old lady with nervous indigestion and knitting-needles and a tendency to breathe audibly after ascending the front-stairs. No wonder, last night, it drove me to taking a volume of George Moore down from the shelf and reading his chapter on “The Woman of Thirty.” But I found small consolation in that over-uxorious essay, feeling as I did that I knew life quite as well as any amorous studio-rat who ever made copy out of his mottled past. So I was driven, in the end, to studying myself long and intently in the broken-hinged mirrors of my dressing-table. And I didn’t find much there to fortify my quailing spirit. I was getting on a bit. I was curling up a little around the edges. There was no denying that fact. For I could see a little fan-light of lines at the outer corner of each eye. And down what Dinky-Dunk once called the honeyed corners of my mouth went another pair of lines which clearly came from too much laughing. But most unmistakably of 57 all there was a line coming under my chin, a small but tell-tale line, announcing the fact that I wasn’t losing any in weight, and standing, I suppose, one of the foot-hills which precede the Rocky-Mountain dewlaps of old age. It wouldn’t be long, I could see, before I’d have to start watching my diet, and looking for a white hair or two, and probably give up horseback riding. And then settle down into an ingle-nook old dowager with a hassock under my feet and a creak in my knees and a fixed conviction that young folks never acted up in my youth as they act up nowadays.

I tried to laugh it away, but my heart went down like a dredge-dipper. Whereupon I set my jaw, which didn’t make me look any younger. But I didn’t much care, for the mirror had already done its worst.

“Not muchee!” I said as I sat there making faces at myself. “You’re still one of the living. The bloom may be off in a place or two, but you’re sound to the core, and serviceable for many a year. So sursum corda! ‘Rung ho! Hira Singh!’ as Chinkie taught us to shout in the old polo days. And that means, Go in and win, Chaddie McKail, and die with your boots on if you have to.”

I was still intent on that study of my robust-looking but slightly weather-beaten map when Dinky-Dunk 58 walked in and caught me in the middle of my Narcissus act.

“‘All is vanity saith the Preacher,’” he began. But he stopped short when I swung about at him. For I hadn’t, after all, been able to carpenter together even a whale-boat of consolation out of my wrecked schooner of hope.

“Oh, Kakaibod,” I wailed, “I’m a pie-faced old has-been, and nobody will ever love me again!”

He only laughed, on his way out, and announced that I seemed to be getting my share of loving, as things went. But he didn’t take back what he said about me being withered. And the first thing I shall do to-morrow, when Gershom comes down to breakfast, will be to ask him how old Cleopatra was when she brought Antony to his knees and how antiquated Ninon D’Enclos was when she lost her power over that semi-civilized creature known as Man. Gershom will know, for Gershom knows everything.