If things are said in this chapter that seem like a repetition of things already told, it is that their importance warrants a repetition in another form. OVER-GENEROSITY"There are no pockets in a shroud," it is said. True it is that we cannot take material things with us to the other side of the grave, and so before the end comes it is well to make preparations for their disposition. There are three ways of getting possession of property: 1. To have it given. 2. To earn it. 3. To steal it. We shall not consider the last method; that is the business of the law, but let us look at the first. Property is given in two ways: 1. By direct gift from one to another. 2. By will, when the amount is payable on the death of the donor. Of course, the widow and children, if there be any, are first to be considered in either of the cases named. Many people, when the end is nearing, think that it is better to make sure that their wealth will reach the right hands by giving it direct and at once. Now, no matter the nobility of the motive that prompts such an act, it is one which, on the whole, cannot be commended. It is all very well to spend available means in order to set a son or daughter up in business, but such sums, if there are other heirs, should be charged against the share of the probable donee, with interest, and a record made of the same. Under no circumstances should old people, who, after raising a family and living honorable lives, have saved enough to own their home and secure an income for their declining years, deed or give this property to their children, or to any one else, in consideration of their having all their subsequent wants met. The better way for the farmer, the merchant, or the manufacturer, when he feels the years pressing heavily and that he can no longer attend properly to the old demands on him, is to shift by a properly drawn contract the business management of the enterprise to his children, or to those whom he wishes to place in charge. In this way the ownership is not changed, and if the new management should prove to be inefficient, it can be placed in more efficient hands. CARE OF WILLSAs has been said, every person having property of any kind to dispose of should make a will. Already ways have been given as to how wills should be made and estates administered, but to these it may be well to add another point. Do not imagine that the making of a will shortens life. Too often, after the demise of a testator who it is known has made a will, the heirs cannot find the document, and the lawyer who drew it knows nothing more about it. Many men leave their wills with their lawyers. If this should not be done, then it would be well to keep it in the safe of the bank in which the testator has his account. But whether in these places or another, there should be no doubt as to the existence of a will, or the place in which it may be found. Only the last will should be kept; all preceding wills should be destroyed. CARE OF PAPERSWhile writing about the care of wills, we are struck with the recollection that wills are not the only papers of value that are apt to be mislaid or lost. Never pay out money without taking a receipt, and never receive money without giving one. You are not responsible for the care of the receipts you give, but you certainly are for the receipts you receive. The trained business man has a place for everything, but there is no reason why the man not so well trained should have to turn his shop or his home upside down every time he wants a paper that proves he has paid a bill, which he must pay again if that receipt is lost. Everything may be regarded as "lost" that cannot be found, even if you are sure "it is about somewhere." No valuable paper should be "about." The only place for it is just where you can lay your hand on it when wanted. In addition to keeping your papers where they can be found the instant they are wanted, see to it that every paper is self- explanatory and clear of meaning on the face of it. CHECKS AND STUBSIt has been advised that the stub be always filled out before the check, and that the check be then copied from the stub. This course will greatly lessen the chances of disagreement between the two. When the last check in the book has been filled and torn out, do not throw away the stubs. They contain important data and may be of use in proving payment should a question arise. In like manner, never destroy the cancelled checks handed you by the cashier when your bank account has been balanced. Each of these checks, if drawn to order as it should be, is a receipt, a voucher, for some payment that may possibly be demanded again. Be on the safe side. SENDING AWAY MONEYIt may be well to repeat again, in more condensed form, just how money may be safely sent to a distance. 1. By bank draft, payable to your order and endorsed over to the person whom you wish to pay. The party receiving the draft must endorse it before he can collect, and this endorsement is a receipt for the money, as the cancelled draft must eventually come into your possession. 2. You can buy an express order up to fifty dollars, but you may send money in a package to any amount. Only banks or large dealers in money do this. Like the bank draft, the express order must be endorsed by the receiver, and the express company returns it to you, when it becomes a receipt. 3. By post office orders, up to one hundred dollars. 4. By postal notes, in small amounts. 5. By telegraph. 6. By transmitting a personal check. 7. By a trusted messenger authorized to get a receipt. The bank draft is the very best way of transmitting money. As has been said, drafts can be bought at any bank, and they should always be made payable to your order. You want to pay a bill of goods to Lloyd, Smith and Company, New Pay to the order of Lloyd, Smith and Company must endorse the draft before it can be cashed. The draft, after payment, is returned to you, and it becomes the best form of receipt. LOST IN MAILSWere you ever at the Dead Letter Office in Washington? If you have never paid such a visit, you can form no conception of the tons, the hundreds of thousands of letters and parcels that are lost every year in the mails. Unaccounted for drafts, checks, postal orders, books, jewelry, medicine, everything, indeed, that the mails will agree to carry, may be found piled in that cemetery of lost communications, the Dead Letter Office. Have you added to the mortuary list? All these deaths, like many of living creatures, are due to carelessness. As a rule, the sender is to blame. He has misdirected. He has placed papers not properly folded in the envelope and then neglected to seal it. He has neglected to write any address at all, and dropped the letter into the box. Again he has addressed the parcel, but neither men nor angels can decipher the writing. MORE ABOUT NOTESThe note, as has been said, is one of the most usual forms of obligation, yet misunderstandings often arise as to its settlement. Here are the points that must be attended to, nor shall we offer any excuse for repeating them collectively: 1. The date and amount must be so plainly written as to leave no doubt as to either. 2. The rate of interest, if any, must be clearly expressed. 3. The post office address of the signer or signees must be written opposite the name. 4. The note should be made payable at a definite place and on a definite date. 5. In taking a note or other obligation from a person who cannot write, be sure to have his "x" mark witnessed. Should you receipt certificates of stock as security for the payment of a note, or the payment of any other debt, be sure to notify the company issuing them. In giving this notice, which should be done at once, state clearly the number of shares you hold, the number of the certificates and to whom issued. The enforcement of this rule will depend altogether on the character of the person with whom you are dealing. Never, if you can help it, buy a past due note, especially if it is not secured by a mortgage. If a note, which a third party has endorsed, becomes due, never agree to an extension of time without getting the written consent of the endorser. Many men have lost through their ignorance of this essential transaction. |