ANGER. 1. Anger is an agitation of the heart against persons or things that displease us, impelling us to reject them and injure them. It urges us to avenge ourselves on them for the wrong they have done, or that we imagine they have done to us. Anger is not necessarily in itself sinful. It is legitimate when it is just, when the feeling is moderate, when the desire of punishment is proportioned to the offence, and when it is soon passed. It is sinful when it is unjust, excessive, vengeful, and lasting. We feel angry when we see a wrong done, the weak oppressed, the truth spoken against, religion mocked. Such a feeling is right, it is righteous zeal. But Anger must not be allowed to get the dominion over us. That is what the Apostle says when he bids us, “Be ye angry, and sin not.” 2. Anger is criminal in its object, when it seeks vengeance on a person for a wrong he has not really done, or in excess of his deserts. Anger is criminal in its means, when it goes about to avenge a wrong by some illicit means, as by slander, by bringing hurt upon the person who has given the offence in a secret, underhand way. Anger is criminal in its motive, when it pursues the offender remorselessly, even though he deserves punishment. Anger is criminal in its motions, if they be allowed to pass the bounds of moderation, and obscure the judgment, that is to say, if it become a blazing passion. Anger is criminal in its expression, when it impels to extravagant, insulting, false words, or violent acts. 3. Let us now return to the consideration of the four qualities of Anger that justify or condemn it. (a) It is sinful if it be unjust, and lawful if just. We must, therefore, be very careful not to allow our eyes to be blinded by passion so as to judge wrongfully. We are very liable to mistake, and may suppose a thing is done against us intentionally, when it has been done accidentally. We must, therefore, not be impulsive in our Anger. (b) It is sinful when excessive. We must not give way to the feeling of Anger, so as to allow it to grow out of indignation at the sense of wrong done into a hot personal passion that, like a whirlwind, will sweep us away with it. (c) It is sinful when vengeful. God says, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay.” We must seek only the redress of the wrong, not the injury of the wrong doer. We must seek his good, not his hurt, in the exercise of punishment. That makes all the difference between retribution and revenge. (d) It is sinful when lasting. “Let not the sun go down on your wrath,” is S. Paul’s rule. If we bear anger and malice in the heart, the longer we harbour it the more unreasonable it grows. Anger must be soon over, ready to die out at once when the opportunity presents itself for forgiveness. |